I refuse to hold the responsibility for dressing in ways to control the temptations of others. I refuse to hold the responsibility for dressing in ways that are supposedly more respectful. There is more to a person than how they dress. You can’t label someone as respectable or sleezy just by judging what they’re wearing. It’s not for me to limit how to express myself with my clothes because I’m scared of how someone will look at me or how they will feel depending on what I’m wearing. Everyone is responsible for himself or herself. How we dress is one extension of how we feel about ourselves. If we want to feel comfy or sexy or sporty, that should be up to us. This is for men and for women. Don’t refrain from feeling good by wearing certain clothes because you’re scared of judgment, lustful eyes, or whatever the case may be. It’s not your responsibility to control someone else’s mind; that is their onus. Be free from those worries, as free as a bird.